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Guru Ram Das was born on
September 24, 1534 to simple God-fearing parents, Hari Das and Anup Devi
of Lahore. Known as Jetha meaning the first born, he was a handsome young
man. When he grew up he could always be found in the company of religious
men. One day Jetha came across a party of Sikhs who were on their way to
Goindwal to pay homage to Guru Amar Das. Jetha decided to join them and
also travel to Goindwal. Upon their arrival and meeting, Guru Amar Das at
once noticed the young Jetha with his pleasant manner and sense of
devotion. While his fellow travelers returned to Lahore, Jetha decided to
stay and become a disciple of Guru Amar Das. His hard work, and devotion
eventually won him the hand of Guru Amar Das's younger daughter, Bibi
Bhani. They went on to have three sons, Prithi Chand, Mahadev and Arjan
Dev.
Jetha became a trusted
disciple of Guru Amar Das. As described previously he successfully
represented Guru Ram Das before the Mughal royal court to defend the
charges by jealous Hindus that Sikhism maligned both the Hindu and Muslim
religions. "Birth and caste are of no avail before God. It is deeds which
make or unmake a man. To exploit ignorant people with superstitions and to
call it religion is a sacrilege against God and man. To worship the
infinite, formless and absolute God in the form of a totem, an image or an
insignificant or time-bound object of nature, or to wash one's sins not
through compassion and self-surrender, but through ablutions; to insist
upon special diets, languages and dresses, and fads about what to eat and
what not, and to condemn the mass of human beings, including women, to the
status of sub-humans and to deny them the reading of the scriptures and
even work of every kind is to tear apart man from man. This is not
religion, not is it religion to deny the world through which alone man can
find his spiritual possibilities." The Emperor Akbar was greatly impressed
by the tenants of Sikhism as explained by Jetha and dismissed all of the
charges.
Eventually Jetha was
ordained as Guru Amar Das's successor and named Guru Ram Das (meaning
servant of God). These events have previously been described.
When the aged ascetic
son of Guru Nanak Baba Sri Chand came to visit Guru Ram Das he asked him
why he kept such a long beard? Guru Ram Das replied; "To wipe the dust off
the feet of holy men like yourself" and then proceeded to perform this
supreme act of humility. Sri Chand held his hand and embraced Guru Ram Das
saying; "It's enough. This is the kind of character by which you have
deprived me of my ancestral heritage. Now, what more is left with me that
I could offer you for your piety and goodness of heart?"
Guru Ram Das now
eagerly continued the building of the city of Ramdaspur (the abode of Ram
Das) by digging of the second sacred pool as he had been instructed by
Guru Amar Das. Pilgrims came in large numbers to hear the Guru and to help
in the excavation work of the tank. The holy tank would be called Amritsar
meaning pool of nectar. Today the city which is the holiest center of
Sikhism has come to be know as Amritsar. Guru Ram Das urged his Sikhs that
one could fulfill one's life not merely by quiet meditation but in
actively participating in the joys and sorrows of others. This is how one
could also rid oneself of the prime malady - Ego, and end their spiritual
loneliness.
One of the new entries
into the Sikh fold at this time was Bhai Gurdas Bhalla, the son of the
younger brother of Guru Amar Das. Bhai Gurdas was a superb poet and
scholar of comparative religion who would later go on become the scribe of
the first edition of the Guru Granth Sahib. Guru Amar Das was impressed
with Bhai Gurdas's existing knowledge of Hindi and Sanskrit and the Hindu
scriptures. Following the tradition of sending out Masands across the
country Guru Amar Das deputed Bhai Gurdas to Agra to spread the gospel of
Sikhism. Before leaving Guru Amar Das prescribed the following routine for
Sikhs;
"He who calls himself
a Sikh of the True Guru, He must get up in the morning and say his
prayers. He must rise in the early hours and bathe in the holy tank. He
must meditate on God as advised by the Guru. And rid himself of the
afflictions of sins and evil. As the day dawns, he should recite
scriptures, and repeat God's name in every activity. He to whom the Guru
takes kindly is shown the path. Nanak! I seek the dust of the feet of the
Guru's Sikh who himself remembers God and makes others remember Him."
(Gauri)
The standard Sikh
marriage ceremony known as the Anand Karaj is centered around the Lawan, a
four stanza hymn composed by Guru Ram Das. The marriage couple
circumscribe the Guru Granth Sahib as each stanza is read. The first round
is the Divine consent for commencing the householders life through
marriage. The second round states that the union of the couple has been
brought about by God. In the third round the couple is described as the
most fortunate as they have sung the praises of the Lord in the company of
saints. In the fourth round the feeling of the couple that they have
obtained their hearts desire and are being congratulated is described.
Guru Ram Das's first
cousin Sahari Mal came to invite the Guru to visit Lahore in connection
with the marriage of his son. The Guru being much too busy with his work
promised to send one of his sons instead. Guru Ram Das asked his eldest
son Prithi Chand to attend on his behalf, but he refused. Prithi Chand
feared that his father was perhaps trying to eliminate him in order to
install his youngest brother Arjan as the next Guru. Arjan was a great
favorite of his father. Mahadev the Guru's middle son was a recluse and
excused himself on the ground that he was not interested in the affairs of
the world. The Guru therefore asked his youngest son Arjan Dev to attend,
which he agreed to do with such grace and humility, that Guru Ram Das was
very pleased.
Arjan Dev now
proceeded to Lahore, where his father asked him to remain until called for
and to take charge of the needs and education of the Sikhs in Lahore, his
ancestral home. After two years of feeling intensely homesick, Arjan Dev
composed a poem of love and devotion and sent it to Guru Ram Das. This
poem along with another one a few month's later were intercepted by the
Guru's jealous son Prithi Chand who made sure his father never received
them. Finally Arjan wrote a third poem and numbered it with a 3 and gave
strict instructions to the messenger to only hand it over to the Guru
personally.
"A moment's separation
and it was like an age. When do I see you now, my beloved Lord? My night
does not pass, nor do I get sleep, Without seeing the Guru's darbar. I am
a sacrifice, I am a sacrifice again to the true darbar of the Guru. 3"
(Majh)
Upon finally receiving
this poem, Guru Ram Das sensed what must have happened to the earlier two
messages so he confronted his eldest son Prithi Chand. At first, Prithi
Chand denied everything, but seeing the insistence of the Guru and the
consequences of refusal to obey him, he finally confessed his treachery
and produced the other two letters. When Guru Ram Das read them, he was
moved to tears by the humility and sincerity of his son Arjan's
compositions.
Guru Ram Das
immediately sent for Baba Buddha to journey to Lahore and to bring back
his son Arjan Dev with full honour. The Guru then had Bhai Budhha apply
the saffron mark to the forehead of Arjan Dev and declared him his
successor. Prithi Chand would not accept his fathers wishes and continued
to misbehave and abuse Guru Arjan Dev. Guru Ram Das had to publicly
condemn his son Prithi Chand for his actions. Shortly thereafter Guru Ram
Das breathed his last on September 1 1581.
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